Hey L,
If you've ever wrestled with any number of unwanted sexual behaviors, you've probably asked yourself some version of these questions at one point in time.
- Why do my urges spike when nothing sexual is even happening?
- Why do I feel completely powerless over something I genuinely hate doing?
- Why do I keep making choices that put my marriage, my career, or my reputation on the line?
Why, even when the shame from the last time is still crushing me, do I sometimes turn right around and do it again?
Truthfully, these aren't small questions.
And they're not dramatic either. They're honest. They're logical. Because on the surface, the behavior makes absolutely no sense. I can attest to that myself.
And when something makes no sense, the human mind goes looking for an explanation because we need things to add up.
So we start doing the math, and eventually most people land on the only reasonable conclusion that seems to fit.
Maybe it's just me.
Maybe I'm wired differently.
Maybe I'm more broken than other people.
Maybe this is just who I am.
And that's a painful place to land. But honestly? It feels logical. Because if the behavior doesn't make sense, then the person doing it must be the problem.
But here's what I want you to consider.
What if your behaviors actually do make sense?
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