Hey L,
Many parents find themselves nervous or unsure when it comes to talking with their children about sex, p***ography, and staying safe online. And that nervousness is understandable.
This is especially the case when we may still struggle with shame or guilt in these areas ourselves.
Nonetheless, these topics can feel uncomfortable, awkward, or even distasteful.
Yet avoiding them leaves children to navigate a world of confusing messages all alone. But honest, open conversations give kids the tools to make healthy decisions, understand their feelings, and ask questions without shame.
Realize though that the goal when talking to your kids about these matters is not to lecture or control them, but to create a safe space where curiosity is welcomed and support is always available.
Here are eight key principles for fostering honest conversations with your children when talking about tough topics like sex, p***, and the online world.
1. Do not hedge or avoid difficult topics
It is very important to use clear, accurate language when talking about sex and related issues. Avoiding difficult terms or glossing over topics can make children feel that these subjects are shameful or dangerous.
Recognize that while this may feel uncomfortable, using the proper words shows respect for their curiosity and teaches them that sex and digital risks are normal topics to discuss.
Hedging, giving vague answers, or using creative terms to avoid discussing body parts communicates shame and can create confusion or lead kids to rely on peers or the internet for information.
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