Hey L,
Let's face it; men and women communicate differently.
Some would even say we speak different languages. Never have I found this statement to be more accurate until marriage.
When men communicate, they often talk with the "give them the meat, throw away the bone mentality."
However, women often want the meat, the bone, the fat, the seasoning, the marinade, the cooking temperature, and the cook time type of conversations.
Problems will arise in relationships/marriages if we don't learn to communicate on a level that our significant other best receives from.
Ladies, this means you should be okay with giving your man the short version of the story.
Men, if your lady wants all the details, then you should give her all the details.
The struggle with communication is that it requires patience.
We all came from different backgrounds and were all raised differently. We can't assume the way we communicate is the same way our partner communicates.
Therefore, to unify our communication, we need to build the bridge.
Have you ever asked your partner, "What's the best way to communicate with you?"
Some people shut down when the tone of one's voice becomes too loud. Some need you to be extremely choosey with your words, while others require you to be direct with them.
You'll only understand the level of communication your partner best receives from by asking them.
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