Accountability can be a dreaded word for some people.
Especially if we've isolated ourselves as we continue to struggle. We don't want someone else knowing our business, particularly when it comes to "shameful" behaviors, and especially in the church.
It seems easier to put on a happy face, and respond, "I'm fine, things are good," when asked how we're doing.
I dug in my heels and didn't want to go to my small group. I didn't want to tell the truth of my life and marriage. I didn't want to face the truth of my choices.
When I'd call my friend on my way to group, she'd ask, "You going to torture group tonight?" She knew how much I hated going. But it was time to take a deep look at myself and invest time and hard work to change and improve my life.
Being slow to change, I saw and felt the importance of becoming accountable to a small group of safe people who wouldn't judge me.
They didn't placate me, or simply encourage me. They challenged me to think deeper, create healthy boundaries, and stand up for myself and speak honestly.
They showed me how to live an aligned and transparent life.
The greatest benefit? I made some friends for life.
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