NEGA DA NET: Are You Doing Accountability The Wrong Way?

quarta-feira, 3 de junho de 2020

Are You Doing Accountability The Wrong Way?

Hey L,

Your spouse just confessed that they've been watching porn.

Now what?!

Our friend Kate Botha has some thoughts on this in this week's post.

Enjoy!

- Brittni

You can see in your spouse's eyes that something is wrong. His eyes shift nervously to different things in the room but never meet yours.

She opens her mouth to speak, but no words come out.

Whether you are the wife or the husband waiting for your spouse to tell you what's worrying them, you become concerned.

And then they hit you sideways with a mumbled statement, "I have something to tell you…I watch porn.

"They could have run you through with a knife—emotions you can't verbalize pulse through your head – disbelief, betrayal, hurt, anger.

Let's freeze the moment right here. You are faced with a choice. The choice is how you respond to the information that you've just heard.

The decision you make could either help your marriage or harm it.

Talk soon,
Brittni

BTW, I know this isn't something that is easy to overcome, but it is possible.

I want to see you and your spouse conquer this battle and come out stronger than ever!

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